November Month 10

This has been the most difficult month so far and the writing of the blog follows suit. I feel I don’t know what to write about, but here goes.

There are no birds to spot – even the pigeons are in short supply – and so I decided to draw a few so that when the days are more conducive to ornithology, I may stand a better chance of recognising my feathered friends. It goes without saying that I can’t draw but I’ve made use of Matt Sewell’s Our Garden Birds and I’m copying his drawings. That doesn’t feel like much of an achievement, but better than nothing. I don’t think I’ll be sued for copyright any time soon!

I have another job. This is a voluntary one until Christmas. I’m calling myself Ms Am@z0n because I’m off to Book-ish every morning to pack the web orders from the day before. Every little bit helps I hope, at least Emma says it does. It’s good for my brain because I’ve had to learn how web orders work, how to check stock and how to order books. However, the real reason I’m writing about it here is that, yes, I am counting it as a job, albeit temporary, which was a challenge from a couple of months ago. It works really well with me being (still, yes still) on British Summer Time. I wanted to be able to work before the shop opens to reduce contact with people, and going at 9am my time is only 8am Book-ish time. I have plenty of time to not be able to find books before anyone comes anywhere near the shop!

Walking the canal is progressing with a bit of manoeuvring. This month was supposed to be Llangattock to Abergavenny, the plan being to catch a bus to Abergavenny and walk back. On the assigned day the bus was FULL and so the plan was quickly changed to drive to Abergavenny, walk half way to Llangattock and back again, and the next day to walk from Llangattock to the previous day’s destination and walk back again. A brilliant plan even though it meant walking this stretch of the canal twice. It was made even more brilliant by the fact that the ‘mid way’ destination turned out to be The Towpath Inn in Gilwern. We crept in to have a look, having not been in a pub for 10 months or so, and it was EMPTY. On both days. A drink was had and it made those two walks very special. Did you note how I managed to capitalise both full and empty in this paragraph?

Enjoying the pub. There’s brandy in one of those!
Canal sights 1
Canal sights 2
Canal sights 3

This month’s donation to Fine Cell Work. A charity which works with prisoners who make absolutely beautiful things. Have a look.

Matt sent me a ‘sweary’ cd this month. Kesha – High Road. He told me it was sweary to warn me and he was right. I didn’t mind too much. I actually liked most of it on first hearing. I haven’t played it a lot because I also ordered the new Bruce Springsteen. Not sweary. Very much liked my me.

Hard to see….. here’s Bruce:

Memory stuff. A real challenge this First of all the poem. I now know the second verse. I wonder if I’ll get it done before February? A friend Lorraine sent me a piece about the poem which I loved reading and made me think. Always a good thing!

https://www.poetryfoundation.org/articles/89511/robert-frost-the-road-not-taken

Then the Chopin Waltz from memory. Even harder, but I can pretty much do this if I have the music in front of me, not to follow, but for a quick look if I stumble. Since I’m short of content this month, I planned to post a recording of me stumbling. I’ve spent half a day trying to work out how to do that, and I’ve failed. You’ll have to take me at my word that I’m hardly looking at the music at all. If you’ve received a link to the blog via an email from me I’ve added the recording to that.

Cooking – here are the best from the month. A roasted mushroom on butterbean mash, recommended this as it full of tasty spices, and chocolate chip muffins. The chocolate chip muffin recipe is from Candace who seems to have made me these muffins at important moments in my life. A pandemic feels important!

Another of those ‘tasted better than in looked’ dishes
Had to be done

This month I read Ali Smith’s Winter and Elif Shafak’s How to Stay Sane in an Age of Division. See how it is? Wintery. Divided. Neither were Bookclub books so another challenge by the wayside. It’s ok though. Elif says so!

On a brighter note, it is my birthday in a couple of months, and no, I won’t have completed my 70 things, but if the governments let us, we will be celebrating in style. I’ve booked something for the day itself and if it happens, it will be perfect. It does, of course, involve eating. Details to follow.

October Month 9

I’ve set myself another challenge (I still need two more). This one is a little silly. I’ve been on lockdown here, and when the end of British Summer Time was approaching I decided that I didn’t want to deal with the dark afternoons that the time change would bring. So, out came the computer, I drew up a chart, and I’m not going to change the clocks until at least a decent time after the equinox. I imagined this would fail almost immediately, but it’s been a week and has been surprisingly easy. And it’s still daylight at 6pm! It’s working partly because Pavel has joined in too. We have discussions at ‘odd’ times during the day about whether it’s coffee time, lunchtime or Channel 4 news time, but we’ve missed nothing yet!

This piece of paper will get more and more crumpled

On the first day of the month I completed task No 46. All 5 peaks reached – Table Mountain, Skirrid, Blorenge, Pen y Fan and now Sugar Loaf. It’s been a delight. It was Pavel’s birthday and we left very early in the morning with a plan to be back down to the Sugarloaf Vineyard for lunch. I thought we would be on top on our own, but no. At least another 5 people arrived while we were there. People get out and about very early!

Walking the Brecon Monmouthshire Canal Day 2. Talybont to Crickhowell. Who would build a canal half way up a mountain? I’m glad they did. The views are stunning. I understand the canal boaters love it too because, unusually, the canal contours the hills, so it is not straight, and navigation is therefore more interesting. Unfortunately the next stage – Crickhowell to Abergavenny – is not possible for a while due to local travel restrictions and now our lockdown.

It looks straight and you can’t see the hills to the left, but it’s not and they are

Bird watching! My lovely friend Jocelyn turned up with another bird feeder to join the one that Kathy sent. This one had fat balls in it. We struggled to attach it in the garden but managed and then watched. My ptarmigan – recently picked up from Arts Alive where I made it last year in a pottery summer school – did not go for the fat balls, but, after a few pretty tits had done their thing, the local jackdaws found them. That was very sad because Jocelyn confirmed that once found, they would not forget. As mean as it sounds, I really don’t want to feed and gaze at jackdaws and so that particular feeder has been abandoned. The apple on the heart still attracts a few small birds. Our garden is not the best place for bird watching though – we have an over-abundance of pigeons. I look to the Spring to work on this challenge. All being well I’ll be 70 by then and the blog will have finished. That is, unless I decide to stay 69 for another year……..

A ptarmigan I made

No. 67 completed too. We went glamping! I feel it may be a bit cheating as it was rather luxury glamping. In a treehouse, in the middle of Wales. Just us, sheep, books and a hot tub! How luxurious is that? I always forget how lovely mid Wales is. Wild, empty and beautiful.

If you look closely you can see the hot tub!

Music. Scales are progressing. I’ve tackled nearly all of them now and have moved on to more complicated arrangements. This month 3 against 2. Not easy.

I haven’t studied a composer. I don’t know why, I just didn’t feel like it. Instead I’ve been listening to minimalist music. Arvo Part’s Spiegel im Spiegal is 10 minutes of total peace. That, or it will drive you crazy! Have a listen.

And then there’s Steve Reich’s (short)) clapping song. Go on……

The chocolate course Lecture 2. Make truffles. I watched the lesson, made the water ganache (I had no idea there was such a thing) and ended up with a total fail. The ganache, even after a day in the freezer – where you’re not supposed to put it – is still too soft to turn into a truffle! We’re eating soft (not)frozen balls of chocolate with creme fraiche. Highly recommended! I’ll try again next month.

Matt sent me a hip hop CD. Marlowe. I had to ask for a copy of the lyrics as my head was baffled. I’ve listened. I don’t mind it but it’s probably not going to find it’s way to the top of the pile. It doesn’t matter.

Matt said: Well this one was always going to be a little challenging. I doubt many people start getting into hip hop at 70

I’ve cooked, as always. After last month’s blog, my vegan friend Annie suggested I try making ‘fake’ Rolos. Remember Rolos? They probably still exist! Anyway, chocolate covered soft chewy toffee. The vegan ones have a mashed date and peanut butter centre. I sprinkled sesame seeds on them for a bit of interest. As if mashed dates are not interesting enough.

It’s clearly a ‘sweet’ month as I made a rice pudding cake. Rice pudding cake you say? It was quite delicious, but actually not hugely more delicious than rice pudding itself.

I also made a spicy lamb dish and a chicken bake. Even though we’re almost vegetarian. Strange times.

This month’s donation has gone to the Longtown Mountain Rescue team. Chosen because a friend’s husband volunteers with them. They do great work and depend on donations.

Books. Only one this month for a bookclub. Patrick Gale – Take Nothing With You. A charming coming of age novel about a young gay man who plays the cello. The joy of music in the novel made it for me, but then I got close to the end and discovered the absolute best recipe for pasta tomato sauce ever. For some reason I thought it must be Patrick Gale’s recipe, but it turns out that it’s Marcella Hazan’s very own. Simmer a tin of tomatoes with a whole onion cut in half with three ounces of butter for 40 minutes. Discard the onion. Eat. Absolutely delicious. Pavel ate the discarded onion!

I’ve started to paint another picture. You really don’t want to see it.

September Month 8

So what is it about this pandemic that makes time go so quickly and, at the same time, so slowly? Any physicists out there care to explain? Or maybe psychologists? Whatever it is it’s playing havoc with my list. Some things buzz along and then I get to the end of the month to discover I haven’t memorised the second verse of the poem OR written a letter. Two verses next month. Two letters.

The new things. They worked! As did I in one of my new jobs. I’ve been a listener as audio books are being recorded, alerting the reader to mistakes. So I’ve ‘read’ a couple of books too! It’s surprisingly exhausting but incredibly interesting. I spotted mistakes but often the reader spots them first. It feels a little competitive…..

Learning birds. I decided a good start would be to visit the RSPB site at Newport Wetlands where I planned to join, and possibly buy some binoculars, because keen bird watchers told me I must have some. Unfortunately the building was closed and the wifi from the iPad that would have allowed me to join was not working. Yes, I could join on-line, but the Wetlands will get a small financial reward if I join there, so I’ll wait. So no membership, no binoculars and, as it happens on that particular day, not really any birds. Well, a few. But it is a lovely place for a walk and I spent some time in the only open hide I found to look at the few birds around. I knew not what they were. I have a long way to go with this one.

Me bird watching
Binoculars essential….

The following day we went for a walk in the Wye Valley and on a short stop for a banana lunch, a bird I did know came to sit next to me. Gorgeous.

He stayed a while too!

And then, the day after that, this beautiful bird feeder arrived from my friend Kathy to encourage me in this project. I put an apple on as suggested, but so far have not seen a bird feeding – I think I need one of those fat balls. Watch this space, as I will be watching the feeder.

Look closely to see that it’s beautifully heart-shaped

Making chocolates. The chocolate bits and pieces arrived and I’ve done the first lesson. I’ve learned how to temper chocolate and I made a few bars of fruit and nut! The next lesson is truffles.

Chocolate ‘bits’, chocolate tempering and chocolate bars

Walking the Monmouthshire Brecon Canal. First stage – the stages are mine rather than anything official – completed. Brecon to Talybont. It involved a bus, so my first ride on public transport since March, and a pub which popped up towards the end of the walk. How lucky was that?

All the way
The canal

I didn’t manage to make any greeting cards yet, but I will.

That’s progress on new challenges. Now to catch up with old ones.

Composer of the month was Liszt. He was the rock star of his time – which is partly why I like him – playing the piano with extraordinary skill. At one point in the mid 1800s he performed over a thousand times, playing in pretty much every major city.

I love so many of his compositions. If you don’t know his music listen to Consolation No 3 on YouTube. Oh go on, here it is:

Good looking too!

Matts monthly CD was From A View by Floodlights. I didn’t dislike it, but I haven’t listened to it enough. A typical example of what I was complaining about at the beginning. The CD arrived right at the start of the month. I had a quick play, quite liked it, planned to pay more attention to it during the month and then suddenly it’s October tomorrow. I will add it to next month’s offering and listen some more.

I will come back to you….

Monthly donation. I went environmental this time. There’s a plan to plant a million trees in the Brecon Beacons and someone has cut a request for donations into the bracken on a hillside. I like the idea of a million trees and loved the bracken cutting.

This is huge!

Getting to the top of local mountains. Yay! Pen Y Fan. What more is there to say? The highest peak in South Wales. Accompanied this time by, as well as PV, my lovely brother who had never climbed it, and he’s much older than me. We had a great walk and a well deserved pint afterwards. There’s only one more peak to go to tick off No. 46

On top!

A new recipe every two weeks. One of these doesn’t sound like a new recipe. Who hasn’t made a coffee and walnut cake? Well I hadn’t. But I have now. I liked the addition of melted chocolate on top which was a suggestion from Leith’s Bible.

Labelled a pre-birthday cake for PV. Actually, the only birthday cake. Just early.

The second recipe sounded a little odd but was unsurprisingly yummy, since I went back to Ottolenghi again. I must move on and be more adventurous. In the meantime I thoroughly enjoyed sausage, chickpea and autumn vegetables.

Bookclub books. Historical novels are not my favourite and so my library bookclub will be surprised that I am giving this month’s book a stunning 10/10. The Convert by Stefan Hertmans gripped me from the beginning. Inspired by a true story told in documents which had been hidden in 12th century Egypt, it’s a story of young lovers running away, being hunted by crusaders, and living an unbelievably difficult life. Highly recommended!

The second bookclub book this month is The Dutch House by Ann Patchett. A realiable author and a great read. A family drama and sibling love. Another recommendation.

And Oh yes, I almost forgot. This month I managed to get together with both brothers and sisters-in-law at the same time! We were six, so it was allowed. We were outside so it felt safe and we had the most delicious lunch at The Crown, Pantygelli. I’ll recommend that too!

Lockdown hairstyles!

August Month 7

August…. the month for facing up to the reality that things are not going exactly as planned. I’ve carried out an audit of the list. Results and conclusions are presented here:

Aim – to complete 70 tasks before my 70th birthday in February 2021. New readers can find that original list in the first blogpost

Progress to date – I’ve ticked off 25 items and concluded that I should be able to achieve 37 more. These findings were better than expected.

Problem areas – there are currently at least 8 tasks I will not be able to complete due to the pandemic.

Proposed solution – rather than wallow in failure I’ve decided to replace the 8 tasks with 8 new ones. It took a while to come up with 70, so this is hard. Nevertheless I’ve decided on 5 already (see below) and will happily accept suggestions.

FIVE (out of eight) NEW TASKS

1. Get a job. Nothing full time. Life has changed almost beyond recognition and I now have more time on my hands. This has been successful as I have been accepted for two jobs as of this month even though I’ve not done much for either one yet. More details on request!

2. Learn birds. I can identify so few birds and would like to be better at it. This one is partly inspired by my nephew Matt’s recent delve into bird photography. His Instagram posts are amazing. It’s not the best time of year to start this activity but I’m not going to let that put me off. And look, I have this charming book to help!

3. Learn to make chocolates. I’ve signed up for an on-line chocolate making course and am waiting for ‘the things you need to make chocolate things’ to arrive so that I can start.

4. Walk the Monmouthshire – Brecon Canal. It’s on our doorstep and I often walk the local part of the canal. I believe it will take about 4 days to walk from Brecon to Cwmbran. Possibly an extra day if extended to Newport.

5. Make all greeting cards from now on. You’ll see at the end of this page that my artistic skills are limited, so birthdays, anniversaries, house moves, new babies and whatever else will be a real challenge!

That’s all very exciting. Now on to August activities.

11. Monthly donation This time it’s to the Hay, Brecon and Talgarth Sanctuary for refugees. An organisation doing what it says on the tin. This felt like an antidote to recent negative press about refugees and asylum seekers trying to cross the channel.

36. Composer of the month August was Brahms. I’ve been listening to some lectures and learning to play one of his waltzes. I haven’t been very taken with the man himself but found it interesting that as a child he played music in pubs and brothels as a way of contributing to the family finances. This was acceptable child labour in the mid 19th century. And his relationship with Clara Schumann is fascinating. Did they or didn’t they?

Serious Brahms

His music I found a bit demanding although his piano concertos are lovely.

43. Matt’s monthly CD Honey Moon by Beach Bunny. Again, a winner. I wonder if he’ll ever send me something I really don’t like. Maybe at the end of the year I should rank the 12 I’m hoping to receive.

46. Getting to the top of local mountains I made it to the top of two peaks this month. Blorenge and Skirrid. It’s simply stunning up there. Two more to go before ticking this one off.

Blorenge and….
…. where it says!

62. Trying new recipes every two weeks. One was to make use of the glut of cavolo nero from the allotment. I cooked it with chilli and chickpeas, topped with steamed cod.

It was ok…. the cod was a bit dry

The second was inspired by this cute video of Pavel’s great-nephew’s girlfriend’s English homework!

I think her chocolat meolleux turned out better than mine, but it was a fun and an easy thing to do!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WdndXvV6PZ0

Vastly improved when served with double cream

68. Bookclub books. One was Where the Crawdads Sing by Delia Owens which, if you haven’t read it, just do. It’s a very lovely story that transports you to someone else’s fascinating, difficult and inspiring world.

The second Bookclub book was/is Thomas Cromwell by Diarmaid MacCulloch. Not at all my type of book and under normal circumstances I wouldn’t stick with it. But the challenge is to do so and so I will but I’ve cheated. First of all I have to admit to getting the Kindle edition (apologies to booksellers everywhere) but I also ticked the audio box, so I am listening to Thomas Cromwell! Is that cheating? I guess so, but I’m not cheating very often so let me get away with this one. Am I enjoying it? I’ve only just started and not hugely so far.

4. Paint a picture. I’ve left this one to the end so that I could leave you with my deconstructed rainbow in the hope that it raises a smile. Artist I am not, but all is not yet lost – I have one more canvas at my disposal.

I know…..

July Month 6

This is a very exciting month because, with the lockdown ease….. I’ve done things! I’m still a long way off 70, and I’m sure I’ll need to revise the original list, but a window of opportunity came and I peered through. As you can see, this covid life is making me quite poetical.

I’ll start with the negatives to get them out of the way:

Number 63 – Learn a poem I’m no further than one verse into the poem I’m learning by heart, the good news being that I do remember that verse and can recite it to order. I was going to say without thinking, but I expect that that’s not a good thing to do if I’m going to start to appreciate poetry. Message to self – ‘think about what the poet is saying‘.

Number 54 – Listen to Bien Dire every two months. Listening to the recordings of the French magazine Bien Dire is the second word of that in English. It’s dire and I’m not learning anything. Not that I’m heading off to France any time soon, but if I ever do, I want to be able to chat away to the locals. Or ask the way to the Post Office. Or something between the two. When clearing out a cupboard I discovered the so far unused Michel Thomas French Course CDs. It is now a new challenge to complete the course.

Enough of the negatives. Here are the NEW things and I’ll finish with the usual ongoing achievements.

Number 44 – Ride a bicycle along a cycle path. No cycle path, but after many years, I borrowed a bike and rode it. There is proof. I didn’t ride it far, but I didn’t fall off.

I went further than this but it takes ages to load a video!

Number 46 – Walk up local mountains. I’ve started with Table Mountain. The least demanding. But oh, how lovely it was. I wrote about the walk from memory last month and I was pleased to see how much I’d remembered. The longhorn cows were there complete with long horns, as placid as ever. Being on top was air punching. ‘Where I used to live’ and ‘Where Pavel grows vegetables’ were clearly visible . Only 4 more peaks to go. All more of a challenge than this one.

I’m pointing to the right where I used to live and to the left where Pavel grows his vegetables

Number 66 – Sort photos. The photos had been stored in a large box for years. When I’d decided how to tackle them, it really wasn’t that bad and I would highly recommend biting the bullet and doing this if you have a similar stash of photos. Instead of trying to put them into albums, I bought Ikea boxes (recommended by the lovely Janice), brown envelopes, and sorted according to topic. I threw some away, and am left with three (small) boxes. One for trips and holidays, one for family and friends, and one for the decades of my life. Yes, there is overlap but it’s neat and tidy. I still have albums, but now I have albums and boxes and I pretty much know where everything is. The envelope ‘filing’ makes it easy to access photos and the space taken up is much reduced. Success.

Before, after, and……
…the boxes

The usual:

Number 35 – a new composer. Rachmaninov. Hmmm. I was lent a book which after the first chapter turned out to be a bit dry and dense. I didn’t finish it. A couple of YouTube documentaries didn’t inspire me either. I liked a lot of the music. I was familiar with Piano Concerto No 2 – the theme from Brief Encounter, and Piano Concerto No 3 from the movie Shine. New pieces I really liked were the Preludes in G minor and C# major . But Rachmaninov himself? Not as interesting as the others I’ve been learning about. He seems to have been generally more stable, middle class and financially secure – with requited love! Although leaving your homeland and settling in a new country would not have been easy.

The one thing everyone but me seemed to know about him was that he had enormous hands and so could stretch huge intervals on the keyboard!

BIG!

Number 62 – cooking new recipes. This month is was za’atar chicken with lemon, and yogurt & tahini sauce. Just typing that makes my mouth water. Do try it. Unless you’re vegetarian/vegan, but even then, make yogurt and tahini sauce and dribble it over everything. You won’t regret it.

Photo taken before the addition of the sauce.

Then I made chocolate and hazelnut brown butter financiers. And yes, we all think financiers work in the City don’t we? Well, not only! The recipe called for 5 egg whites so I also make a huge jug of custard. Rhubarb and custard was a daily event for a while. A dish from times gone by, but none the worse for it.

There were 20 of these little things

Number 3 – Write proper letters. This month to a sister-in-law in the US who should have been visiting in September. Skype calls are good but we’ll miss the face to face.

Number 4 – Paint a picture. That’s coming along in a rubbish sort of way! I had the idea of a lockdown inspired piece of art. It’s definitely not the one I’ll consider as completing Number 4, but I thought you might like to see the blue sky of lockdown and one of the swallows that arrived at the start of summer!

That’s a swallow

Number 10 – Monthly donation this month to South Powys Parkinson’s Group.

Number 43 – CD from Matt at Diverse Vinyl. I’m definitely getting, and enjoying, something different every month. This one appealed to the Bruce Springsteen inside me! It’s by Country Westerns but doesn’t appear to have a title.

Number 63 – Plant a herb garden. It’s going well but I’m rather grumpy about the fact that the parsley Pavel is growing on his allotment is far more successful that the parsley I’m growing on his allotment…

Mine…………………..His

Number 68 – Book club books. Only one this month so I’m let off the possibility of reading something I don’t like! The one was Girl, Woman, Other by Bernadine Evaristo. It’s the stories of twelve women whose lives overlap in very different ways at different times. It’s clever and thought provoking. I’m giving it 5 stars. The literary world gave it the Booker Prize!

With only one book club book there was time for more. I went for a bit of a medical/healthcare ride and read With The End In Mind by Kathryn Mannix about end of life care, and Fragile Lives by Stephen Westaby about the patients he met and treated as a cardiac surgeon. I would recommend the first but I’m not so sure about the second. It’s interesting but quite technical and consequently hard going. I wasn’t gripped. Now I’m reading Rodham by Curtis Sittenfeld which is a fictional take on Hillary Clinton’s life if she hadn’t married Bill. So far so good.

And it came with a delightful tote bag!

See you next month.

March Month 2

Well, March 2020 certainly turned into a month that none of us were expecting! Staying in, staying safe. How has that affected progress on my list? Let’s see:

BEING CREATIVE

1. To document the year

Read on!

2.  Write something

Early in month I had a dose of something suspiciously like ‘flu – or a really bad cold. I’m pretty sure it wasn’t THAT ‘flu as I didn’t suffer from a high temperature. It did mean that I missed a writing class, and then couldn’t contribute to the next class, so I’ve given up on it. However, I asked my friend Marcia if she would like to ‘write a novel’ with me. Rather grand that. A story maybe. One of us would write a bit and then send it to the other to write the next bit. Repeat. Well, we’ve started. Who knows how far we’ll get. Marcia is the writer, not me, but I’m hoping her efforts will be an inspiration for me.

3. Write letters to friends who live away This month’s letter went to a friend who doesn’t live very far from me, but she’s not in the best of health and I can’t visit. So I wrote a letter.

4. Paint a picture.

Not yet done but I did get out the easel and make it ready. It’s the perfect time for this ‘at home’ activity.

GIVING

5-16 Monthly donation to a worthy cause

This month to Peak Crickhowell for use by the lovely potter Martin Craddock who runs a class for people referred by Brecon and District Mind

17. Give blood has been changed to Give books

Instead of giving blood, I’ve been giving books this month. Quite a few books! My aim has been to connect with friends at the same time as supporting Crickhowell’s independent bookshop (book-ish.co.uk) during a difficult time for business. I’d like the bookshop to be there on the other side of the pandemic and this is a way to help.

MUSIC

18-29. Learn all the major and minor scales

E flat major and C minor for March. Not much else to say about that!

30 – 41. Study a new composer every month

March was Chopin. And I discovered that 1st March was his birthday, so a perfect choice! We were supposed to see Lucy Parham and Patricia Hodge give a performance of the story of Chopin’s life at the Hastings Piano Festival. Unfortunately the event was cancelled because Lucy was ill. On the train back to London I listened to the BBC Composer of the Week programme on Chopin.

We went to a live transmission from the Royal Opera House of the Royal Ballet performance of the story of Jacqueline de Pre. That was superb, but the surprise was the first half – a ballet called Gatherings. I knew nothing about it, and it turned out to be a collection of dances to Chopin’s music. The ROH music director played the piano live for the performance. Magic.

Pavel and I watched a YouTube documentary about Chopin and another where the American pianist Garrick Ohlson took part in an inspirational interview about the composer.

Gary, my piano teacher recommended a biography which I’ve read over the course of the month. So now I know a lot, and if anyone is interested I’d recommend the book.

Fiona knew that, as well as learning about Chopin the man, I’m also learning 3 of his Preludes. To help me on my way she sent this, which has brought a lot of pleasure:

So yes, I feel as if I’ve given Chopin my all this month.

42. Play a piano piece from memory

The piece I’ve chosen is (coincidentally) Chopin’s Waltz in A minor. I was trying to learn it from memory when Gary, my piano teacher gently suggested that I actually learn how to play it first! I always want to do things too quickly…. anyway, I listened and now I can play it, with the music. So from now on I’m launching my memory cells. Wish me luck! I think it will take several months.

43. Buy and listen to a CD recommended by Matt at Diverse vinyl

Just in time, this arrived:

bones you have thrown me and blood I’ve spilled by kathryn joseph

So very different from last month’s Lizzo and it hasn’t taken me quite so long to begin to find it familiar and to enjoy listening.

Being Active

All being active challenges (44-48) are on hold. We’re confined to barracks and I hope I’ll get to them later in the year.

FAMILY

49. Watch Hugo play football

On hold!

50. Meet up with Chris

We have a date which looks as if it will be postponed. It will be a busy autumn.

51. Lunch with at least one brother and sister in law every two months

We’ve already ticked this off for the first two months but I can’t help adding this meet up. There’ll be a few more I expect. The whole world is Zooming!

FRENCH

52 – 57.  Listen to and read Bien Dire bi-monthly

I am doing this but without a lot of enthusiasm. It’s extraordinary how quickly the thought of travelling anywhere at all has been pushed to the recesses of my brain.

58. Travel North to visit Lesley, and Tim and Penny

Not for a while

59.  Go to the Edinburgh Festival and see Marcia’s play

Joanna and I booked accommodation in Edinburgh but the festival will likely be cancelled. A discussion needs to be had. Edinburgh later in the year for fun?

60. Stay in one of Frankie and Stuart’s honeymoon hotels

Ditto 58

61. Leave 100% tip

I always knew this would be a problem!

62.  Cook a new recipe every two weeks

There’s going to be no problem at all doing this. It’s virtually a new recipe every day! Here are this month’s which were attempted to fulfil activity No 62. Neither was 100% successful this time.

The first was because a non-dairy friend (now there’s a thought!) was coming to lunch. I made chestnut and sun-dried tomato casserole. I love chestnuts but I’m afraid the dish didn’t quite live up to expectations.

Then I tried biscuits. Oatmeal. They tasted lovely but were rather misshapen. Not a problem, but those who know me well will know that I wouldn’t have been happy with that!

63. Learn a poem

I think I’ve decided that it will be ‘I wandered lonely as a cloud’ but friends are still sending suggestions so I’ll wait a while.

64. Plant a herb garden

If the garden centre will deliver I may achieve this, or I may put out a call for spare plants, cuttings. It’s still a few weeks too early so fingers crossed I can get something (trans)planted!

65. Weigh 7lb less according to MJ Fitness scales

Well, who’s not doing Joe Wicks every day and going on an allowed brisk walk? I think this challenge may be easier than I thought. The problem is that I can’t get anywhere near the required scales.

66. Sort photos into albums

After a chat with Janice I’ve changed this into ‘organise photos into boxes’. That’s what Janice did, and I like the idea because it will take up less space and also avoid having to do all those fiddly sticky corners! I have the boxes ready and what better time to start on this Thank you IKEA. And Janice!

67.  Go camping/glamping

Booked to go in May with Marcia – the friend most unlikely to go glamping ever. But she did book and we laughed rather a lot as she was doing so. Now it turns out we won’t be able to go in May, so another activity pushed to the autumn.

68.  Read ALL bookclub books

The Library Bookclub has a month off because this month we have our ‘Christmas get together’. I’ll leave that there for you to ponder.

The Book-ish Bookclub is reading Nothing To Envy. I’ve read it and highly recommend it as an account of life in North Korea. A non-fiction book that is both fascinating and gripping.

69. Something with Emma

We can’t do that either in lockdown

70. Celebratory birthday dinner 2021

Let’s hope so!

June Month 5

ANOTHER month of lockdown and I’m a bit bored with this blog, so I assume it’s not very exciting for readers either. So, to make it more interesting for me, at least, I’m going to write it backwards and try for a little story or note of interest with each ‘achievement’. As usual, there are photos too.

Starting at the end. No.68, to read all bookclub books. Two this month, Queenie by Candice Carty-Williams and The Doll Factory by Elizabeth Macneal.

We were warned that Queenie has a lot of sex in it, which it does, but more importantly it gives an insight in to what it’s like to be a young, black woman in Britain today. It’s funny too. It just won Book of the Year at the British Book Awards. The same place where Crickhowell’s Book-ish won Independent Bookshop of the Year. Well done to both. Particularly Book-ish though!

I didn’t think I’d like The Doll Factory as historical novels are not my thing. I may have said that before. However, I thoroughly enjoyed it and that’s why I love a bookclub. The joy of this book was added to by watching an author event put on by At Home With 4 Indies. Four independent bookshops have got together to host author events during lockdown and my local shop, Book-ish is one of them. These are delightful events which authors seem to be enjoying as much as the viewers. You can access all events (past ones too) on the AT HOME WITH page on Facebook.

There’s another event coming up on 9th July with At Home With in collaboration with Penguin Books. I’m mentioning it because I think it will be amazing. Hadley Freeman is interviewing Curtis Sittenfeld about her book Rodham. The story of Hillary Clinton if she hadn’t met and married Bill. Now that’s the sort of book I like!

The herb garden, No 64, is coming along nicely although I don’t think the soil on the allotment is up to much. I planted Lemon Verbena there, and some from the same batch in a pot in the garden. Look at the difference! I’m growing it, not to make tea, which is a common use, but to make a lemon verbena custard. It’s delicious – like a Spanish flan where the milk gets infused with the herb.

The one on the right is massively bigger than the one on the left in the herb garden.

Learn a poem No.63. After deciding which poem to learn – see last month – I’ve struggled. I can’t remember anything these days. Then I did remember how I used to learn things for exams. By writing them down. And Hey Presto! Look at this. Twenty minutes of writing and repeating and I can recite the first verse. There’s a psychologist/pedagogist somewhere who has a name for people who learn this. Let me know if you know!

Verse 1. Now in my head

No 62. Cooking. The thrill of the kitchen evaded me this month as both of the new things I’ve cooked I didn’t like very much. Also, I’m a bit cooked out. I’m not the only cook in the house, but I do most of it and the novelty is wearing thin. 100 days of preparing two meals a day! The new recipes this month were muffins. I tried two. Chocolate chip, and Feel Healthy. The muffins of opposites. The problem was the self-raising flour. The only one I had was wholemeal and take it from me, it doesn’t really work.

Chocolate chip muffins

The second (third I guess) was Swiss chard, spinach and tomato with paprika almonds. I was full of hope mainly because it was an interesting sounding recipe from my hero Ottolenghi which would enable us to use up the ridiculously large harvest of Swiss chard from the allotment. But he failed on this one. Not only was it not interesting, it was decidedly dull.

Looked SO much better than it tasted

The good news though is that lots of local places are now doing take-away meals and once a week we’ve organised one which means we’re able to support local businesses and I don’t have to cook.  Pizza from the Talgarth Mill, Italian food from Nonna Catarina, Fish and Chips from Yummy Kitchen and something from The Hardwick this weekend.  It almost like going out to eat.  Just not quite!

I’ve got nowhere near No 46 – to reach the summits of local mountains. The National Park has now opened footpaths and it will be possible to do some of these soon. In the absence of the walks, I decided to combine 46 with No 2, to write something. Here it is – before its turn – my imaginary walk up Table Mountain.

LOCKDOWN IMAGININGS

At the start of lockdown, a friend began to post Shakespeare’s sonnets every day on Instagram. She’s on ninety something. It has been, and indeed is being, a long haul. At the start of lockdown the Brecon Beacons National Park shut down most footpaths, so no-one was going on a long haul up a hill. But I need to as I have four hills to climb this year. As well as climbing hills I need to ‘write something’, so I’ve decided, this month, to write my walk up one of those hills. So, rucksack and boots on, here goes……

95 days at home. Thirteen weeks?

A short daily walk and not much more than a trip around the corner for newspaper and milk. But today! Today I’ll walk up Table Mountain in my mind, at least. Out of the door. Past the school. The school. The teenagers. All dressed the same. I stare.

What do they think about the world? Us oldies not so much, but they have so much to look forward to. I’m relying on them to make us a better world where we somehow failed.

Then past another school. Tiny children. Without a care in the world.

Through a couple of streets and over a stile. I hate this bit. A field with what I think are Aberdeen Angus cows, but maybe they’re something else. Their horns could hurl me to Timbuctoo if the urge was there. But, as usual, they sit. Just sit. I am of no interest. Another stile.

Spring shoots are shooting. Everywhere. Sometime soon the bracken will grow into a wall to battle against but for now it’s easy. The path is clear. The views are open.

Two more fields. Two more stiles. And then the creek. The creek is my favourite part of the climb. A path. A dip. A stream. A bank. A bank of bluebells sometime soon.

Now the ground is rocky. I need to concentrate. Concentrate hard on where I put my feet. It’s good to be out.

The moles have made a patchwork quilt of the next field.

Straight lines of mini hills following the footpath. Underground friends. Do they know I’m here?

A view at last.

Over there the highest peak.

Over there I used to live, and look out over here.

Over there where Pavel grows vegetables

Over here, I’m tired.

Onward and upward. Sheep stop and stare.

A stone. A message scrawled

‘Keys found. Call 07437321452’

I worry about the key owner who would never see the stone. Never.

And to the top. Alone at the top. Content at the top.

We move on to music. This month – No 43 buy and listen to a CD recommended by Matt who sent me Failures by Katie Malco. It didn’t arrive until close to the end of the month because we live in strange times and ordering and mailing is not as efficient as in non-strange times! I usually need a few plays to know whether I like something or not, but I liked this on first playing and look forward to getting more familiar with it next month. I hope July’s music doesn’t arrive too soon.

No 34 a new composer. Not completely new if you read last month. Clara Schumann who I had originally lumped together with husband Robert. Clara was amazing. An incredible pianist – one of the first to regularly perform from memory; a composer of some wonderful music; a mother of eight who also looked after her grandchildren after the death of her son Felix; a woman who ran a household and dealt with multiple cases of mental illness in her family. She did all that in the middle of the nineteenth century.

Clara was beautiful as well as amazing

I have learnt two scales, continued to practice my Chopin waltz, had some ideas about the painting and sent a letter to a friend in America. I love that I’ve had two letters back from friends I’ve written to in previous months

No. 9 monthly donation. This month to the Hygiene Bank Wales. They distribute toiletries, toothpaste and sanitary products to people in need. I’m having to think about the monthly donations and everytime I ponder that I live in one of the world’s richest countries and that these things are needed.

It’s almost half way through my year and I’m nowhere near half way through my list. Next month there may be an announcement…..

End of June

May Month 4

Gosh – third (second full) lockdown month. Who would have thought? Lockdown is probably worth a blog of its own, but here I am, reporting on a small number of the 70 tasks to complete before my 70th birthday. Again, no mention of things I can’t do because of lockdown and simply an account of what has been possible. I’m not giving up yet. However, there are more photos than writing this month, so whizz through, have a look, and bear with me.

3. Write a proper letter every month. I wrote a letter to a friend in San Francisco. American friends are not in lockdown but are ‘sheltered in place.’ It’s a cute turn of phrase and I love how it goes along with such things as lift/elevator, pavement/sidewalk. I looked it up, and the origin is that the warning is issued when chemical, biological or radiological contaminants could have been released and residents should take refuge in a small, interior room with no or few windows. Slightly less dramatic for epidemic incidents, but the message is the same.

I wasn’t sure if the letter would even get to the USA. We were seeing no aeroplanes in the pandemic sky. Then, a couple of days after posting/mailing the letter we saw a vapour trail on our daily walk. I looked it up because where on earth could it be coming from, going to. And look!

The first vapour trail in weeks
My letter was (possibly) on its way.

As you can see, I’m spinning this out….

4. Paint a picture. I ordered extra acrylic paints when I looked at my limited colours. They arrived and I started painting on my one and only canvas. It didn’t take long for me to realise that I actually can’t paint. I have no idea what I was thinking of. I’ve now done some research on how to go about this. I’ve ordered a couple more canvases and I have some ideas. Progress will be made, just not this time!

What was I thinking?

And as I write the doorbell rings….

Canvases!

Am. Spinning. I. Out. Definitely It!

8. Monthly donation. This time to local women’s aid. Lockdown and the associated increase in domestic abuse doesn’t bear thinking about. There couldn’t be a more important time for services to be there for women and children who need them.

21. Learn scales. Yes I’m learning scales.

33. Study a new composer. I chose the Schumanns this month. Robert and his wife Clara. I didn’t feel particularly comfortable about lumping them together. Apart from two lives in one month being a lot to learn about, I quickly realised that I was downplaying the genius of Clara. She deserves her own month. I went from not being particularly comfortable about what I’d done, to being annoyed with myself. So Clara moves to June.

Robert Schumann wrote a delightful book on Advice to Young Musicians and now the cellist Steven Isserlis has added to Schumann’s advice, bringing the book up to date. I LOVED it. It truly resonated with this old musician!

Schumann was not known as a virtuoso. He played the piano (not as well as Clara) but in his twenties he damaged his hand by using mechanical devices to try to strengthen the weaker fingers. Any career he might have had as a performer was finished. So composing it was.

The story of his life is not a particularly happy one. He was thought to have a bipolar disorder and was diagnosed with psychotic melancholia. He died young. I’ve learnt a lot about his life from this excellent book by Judith Chernaik, and look, there’s Schumann looking so much as if he belongs in that Romantic Era of music.

43. Buy and listen to a CD recommended by Matt. This month’s may just be the best yet and overtake Lizzo. It’s Alone, Not Alone by Tiny Leaves. Beautiful instrumentals, absolutely perfect for lockdown. Highly recommended.

62. Cook a new recipe every two weeks. The cooking. The cooking goes on and on. Maybe I should cook 70 new dishes and be done with the whole project! I think Sue Holden is currently up to Number 66 of Shakespeare’s Sonnets – she’s posting one a day during lockdown. If I’d started recipes at the beginning I could soon finish. You see, I’m beginning to worry about not being able to complete this whole challenge, which may have been a bit bonkers to begin with.

OK back to new recipes. This one was weird but, of course, delicious because Ottolenghi suggested it. Smoked fish (haddock) and parsnip cakes. You wouldn’t would you? But do, because they really were good!

Funny fish cakes

And another unlikely combination. Rosemary, olive oil and chocolate. CAKE! This worked too. It’s been a morning coffee addition for a week or so.

Chocolate with rosemary and olive oil? Ok then!

And go on, one more. This time Socca – pan fried gram (chickpea) flour fritters things. Just flour, water and olive oil. Quite delicious.

Memories of Nice, where Socca rules!

A quick nod to number 65 here where I am supposed to weigh 7lb less at the end of the year. Somehow or other, even with all these goodies, and gin and tonics, I seem to have lost 4lbs while locked down. I’m only popping it in, because it’s one of my 70 that I’m on the way to achieving. And I find it amazing and amusing, because food is figuring highly in my life right now!

63. Learn a poem. Last time I said thank you for all the suggestions and I meant it. I’ve said I’m not a poetry lover, but I’ve so enjoyed reading the ones you’ve sent. This month is the month that I’ve chosen the poem. Apologies that it’s not one ‘of yours’. It’s one that I vaguely knew of. Justin Webb chose it as his 8.30 poem of the day when Radio 4 was doing that a few weeks back and it struck a really strong chord with me. It’s The Road Not Taken by Robert Frost. I will report on progress. So far I’ve learnt the first line…… I have time!

64. Plant a herb garden This is so funny. Plants I didn’t know I’d ordered keep arriving. The planted garden now has thyme (it already had thyme), tarragon (two lots of tarragon have arrived – regular and French. Does anyone know the difference?). Parsley (I had parsley). Sage (I hadsage). Rosemary (I had rosemary). Do you see a theme here? And Lemon Verbena. No, I didn’t have that. At least I’m doubling my chances of a successful herb garden!

Before the second sages and rosemary arrived!

68. Read all bookclub books. Well this was a struggle and it’s extraordinary because the book is by Julian Barnes, one of my favourite authors. A tough one as I don’t much like historical novels. And this is not so much a novel either. It’s filled with too many facts which, although interesting, I’m never going to connect with, or remember. Maybe you don’t have to. On the upside, the book is beautiful and the pages a delight to turn. Thick, off-white paper. Lovely. I enjoyed the touch and feel of the book more than the content.

Thanks for reading. Slow progress but progress nevertheless. If I keep writing I’ll keep up enthusiasm for all the things I can’t currently do.

April Month 3

A quarter of the way through the twelve months I set myself for completing 70 everyday things and it’s not going exactly as planned! However, things can be achieved in lockdown.  I’ll report progress for April, but without repeating what I can’t do through no fault of my own.

I’ve been thinking that I’ll have to amend my list.  In addition to lock down, a couple of already booked activities – glamping and the Edinburgh Festival – have been cancelled so I’ll need replacements for both of those.  But what?  I can’t think of anything other than embroidery or knitting that fits the current situation, and although I have nothing against either activity, they’re not acceptable!  I’m waiting to see what the lifted restrictions look like and the likely timescales.  It’s true that I’ve acknowledged my 70th birthday by producing this list, but the suggestion that us oldies will need to self-distance and isolate for much longer than others won’t make 7070in2020 any easier!

What did April bring, apart from stunning weather?

2. Writing hasn’t worked.  The novel that Marcia and I thought we might write has bitten the dust.  It was probably a bad idea to begin without a plan, plot, agreed characters, setting or genre, and after starting with a flourish it died a sudden death.  I can’t even remember whose turn it is!

3. Writing letters I need to write 12 letters but haven’t managed one this month. People I want to write to are overseas and I’m not yet going to the post office, so I’ve decided that as long as I write 12 letters before next February that’s OK. I’ll manage to do that.

7. Monthly donation I changed my plan for the month and made the donations to the Crickhowell Scrubs Group who are making scrubs, bags, caps and ear protectors for NHS and Key Workers, and the Abergavenny Food Bank.

17. Giving books I’m still giving books but am running out of people to send to now!

Here’s Richard with a book!

32.  Composer of the month was Bach.  I wasn’t a fan until I started playing some.  The music is a joy to play and, through playing I’ve learned to listen, and I like him more.

I’ve read Horatio Clare’s book which he wrote when walking in Bach’s footsteps from Arnstadt to Lübeck to visit Dieterich Buxtehude, the famous organist. It’s a delightful read whether or not you’re interested in Bach. And it has a beautiful cover:

We had tickets for a ‘Bach, The Universe and Everything’ concert by the Orchestra of the Age of Enlightenment.  It was cancelled, but a number of the orchestra members ‘Zoomed’ the concert to YouTube which was a real treat.

A YouTube search came up with ‘A Passionate Life’ – a documentary about Bach by John Eliot Gardner, and 7 episodes of Great Composers from the BBC so although I’m no expert, it’s been good to learn more and I’ve loved listening to the Goldberg Variations, the Brandenberg Concertos, Cello Suite No 1, Air on a G String, and the end of the Art of the Fugue which stops. Just stops.

42. Playing a piano piece from memory Chopin’s Waltz in A minor, the first 8 bars YES (minor hesitation due to performance nerves)

My hands look 70 years old already!

43. A CD recommended by Matt at Diverse Vinyl This month it was Snapshot of a Beginner by Nap Eyes, which I liked enough after several plays. I like how these monthly CDs are so different. Lizzo is still my favourite.

62.  Cooking So easy this one.  It’s all I seem to do.  The new things though:

I tried Sourdough bread thanks to Emma for supplying Bob, the sourdough starter. My sourdough bread turned out more like pumpernickel. I clearly don’t have the knack. Luckily it tasted good.

Courgette fritters were delicious. For the first time ever, I’m looking forward to a glut of courgettes later in the year.

And the unlikely star of the show, Ottolenghi’s potato, leek and sauerkraut gratin with gruyere cheese. Who would have thought!

63. Learn a poem Last month I put out a call for poems and I was so pleased to receive some lovely suggestions. So thank you:

Joanna for Invictus by William Ernest Henley

Debbie for The Peace of Wild Things by Wendell Berry

Lesley for Today by Mary Oliver

Nancy for Inversnaid by Gerard Manley Hopkins and

Rob for alerting me to pretty much every 8.30am poem on the Today Programme!

Thought provoking all of them.

I’ve still not decided.

64. Plant a herb garden Yay! Look…. The Abergavenny Garden Centre delivered herbs and I planted them. I’m as excited as can be to ‘own’ a bit of Pavel’s allotment(s)!

68. Read all book club books Only one book club book this month. Machines Like Me by Ian McEwan. I’m a fan of his so it was unlikely to be a chore and I’m pleased to say it wasn’t. Not his best, but very readable, thought provoking and I loved how he changed history!

That’s it for a lockdown attempt.  Progress is not great, but enthusiasm prevails.

February Month 1

7070 in 2020 

It has started well, with only one small hiccup with blood donating, but even that had a silver lining.

Here goes!

BEING CREATIVE

1.  To document the year

I’ve posted quite a few photos on Instagram, mainly for fun. Some things I haven’t because it didn’t seem quite right. The most popular posts related to food!

2.  Write something

The first writing class was a bit nerve- wracking but I met some lovely people. It seems that you don’t have to read any of your writing to the class if you don’t want to. Currently I don’t want to. We’ll see!

3. Write letters to friends who live away

MaryElizabeth in Los Angeles is about to receive a letter! She was my first because I know that her current lifestyle is such that she’s unlikely to be at one address for any length of time. I had an address so I pounced on it. 3 pages, handwritten, with a fountain pen.

GIVING

5. Monthly donation to a worthy cause

This month to Headway, Cardiff and South East Wales. My nephew Matt’s girlfriend Rhian, works there, and I know funding is tight.

17.  Give blood

So, it turns out that if you’ve not given blood before you’re 66, then you can’t…. So I’m looking for another number 17. The good news is that when I was telling this to the lovely Mark – who was decorating our flat – he decided to give blood. Yay! I know he’s already looked up the dates when he might do this.

MUSIC

18. Learn all the major and minor scales

A flat major and F minor for February. This scored very few likes on Instagram 😂

30. Study a new composer every month

Beethoven is the flavour of the year as it’s 250 years since his birth. I chose him for February and it was brilliant. I learned and listened to so much – a weekend at the Barbican listening to all nine symphonies.

I read a book of poems by Ruth Padel – Beethoven Variations. And I’m not that keen on poetry!

Watched a film about Beethoven’s life and music. But also failed to watch a film on YouTube which was not very good.

Properly listened to the 3rd and 4th piano concertos and went to a Rush Hour concert to listen to the Brodsky Quartet play String Quartet No 132.

I loved it all – the life and music of a genius.

43.  Buy and listen to a CD recommended by Matt at Diverse vinyl

For the first month the postman delivered Lizzo. Mark (decorating) was pleased and so was I. I’d not heard of Lizzo and on first playing I wasn’t sure, but now I’m pleased to add her to my listening.

50.  Meet up with Chris

We have a date!

FRENCH

52 – 57.  Listen to and read Bien Dire bi-monthly

I’ve been doing this on the train to and from London. I’m not sure that it’s yet improving my French but it is early days.

59.  Go to the Edinburgh Festival and see Marcia’s play

Joanna and I have booked accommodation in Edinburgh to do this!

62.  Cook a new recipe every two weeks

The hit of Instagram! 1. Orzo, fennel and dill. 2. Chicken Marbella

67.  Go camping/glamping

Booked! May.

68.  Read ALL bookclub books

February done.